In historical times, chastity started out as a way of controlling female sexuality. The meaning of the word chastity is pure or cut off. A chastity belt was designed for females to protect them from any kind of sexual activity. These days, however, it has a totally different meaning in the BDSM community. Male chastity kink is a masochistic thrill to prevent a man from getting a full erection or using his penis for sex. How? Well…by locking up his penis.
Caged by Her
Male chastity is a popular kink among submissive and masochistic men. The material of the device ranges from leather to plastic to stainless steel. The time period of caging can range from a few hours to a couple of weeks or occasionally even months. The male sub knows that he needs to abstain from sex. Only his mistress has the key to free him. Based on my experience, male chastity can be incredibly exciting and fulfilling. The pleasure comes from being controlled by a dominant female. Denying his orgasm. He is under the mercy of his mistress. In addition, caging can increase sex drive and sharpen focus.
Male Chastity-Orgasm Denial
It is very important to choose the correct cage size as well as set it up properly in order to avoid any injuries. Also, if a male is wearing it for an extended period of time, cleaning the device daily is a must.
Some of my male subs arrive to our date already caged. They have been chastised for days (or for weeks). They know that today is the day when they will be free. However, I am the one who decides when they can orgasm. The much awaited and well-deserved blow. It can be sensational.
Newbies, or rather less experienced but curious males, on the other hand, want me to cage them during the play date. It gives them confidence that they can try it with an experienced female. In this case, I supply the device so they do not need to bring it (though I still recommend everyone to get his own).
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